Turn offs
- Plastic smiles, hollow words (I call them masked menaces, me thinks batman and spiderman are much better)
- Short term and long term memory losses over names/details...Forgetting my name is quite pardonable (wow! I seem to have had a revival!) but renaming me is quite unpardonable, according to me!! (This is not done by strangers, mind you, but by 'acquaintances')
- Loud mouths, foul mouths (I can, somehow, stand real stink but not foul language) and big mouths
- Absence of any sort of listening ability : We need to listen to all their banter and the moment we open our mouth to speak, they simply leave you high and dry, as they search for new audience
- Double standards
- Flattery, sugar sweet nothings, dishonest opinions
- Extreme Negativity and discouraging words ( I am negative, mostly, as it in my blood, I am B-ve, jokes apart, I am a pessimist), but some cross the limit. They make you feel the whole world is one dreary, awful, cruel place where you are a misfit, in just a second
- Lack of sense of humour...duh...
- Dominating kings and drama queens, the fashion conscious
- False humility, religiosity/spirituality, long prayers, no action, hard hearts, the-more-talkers -less-walkers
- Attention seekers
- Selfishness (We all are, but some have reached the peak) : The height of it is when you think that everyone in the whole world is well-fed when you finish your meal.
- Extreme materialism
- Honesty, downright, when one can tell the truth in your face without fear of rejection
- Compassion toward the suffered not just in words but in deeds
- Cheerfulness
- Slow to talk and anger and quick to listen
- Courteousness, gentleness
- Never imposing but always accomodating
- Promise Keepers
